Happy Friday, lemon-droppers! We’re almost to the weekend and I couldn’t be happier about it – hubby has been in Houston this week and I can’t wait for him to get back him tonight! Single-parenting two rambunctious babies is rough, ha!
After Everly was born, JP and I discussed looking for a house with a little bit more space. We really wanted something with a basement and a little more room for the kids to play. But after lots of discussions and prayer, we decided that wasn’t the direction we should go.
I haven’t shared this on the blog yet, but a little over a month ago, I made the transition to stay home with our kids, while also working part-time at our church. It was a big decision for us, and one I prayed about a lot. I loved my job, but after I went back to work from Everly’s maternity leave, all I could think about was being with her and Roarke all the time and savoring the precious moments I have with them while they’re little. So, JP and I decided to do what we needed to in order to make that happen. And that included agreeing to stay where we are for several more years.
When we moved into this house (almost 4 years ago), I had a specific idea of what this house would be. We would live here for 4-5 years, probably start our family here, but then move on to our forever house. This was our ‘just for now’ house.
Let me tell you, folks, that was a bad mentality to have.
It’s only recently that I’ve realized just how crippling that train of thought has been. Yes, we’ve made nice updates to the house, but I’ve refrained from making some of the changes I’d like because I’m always thinking about the fact that we’ll be reselling this. And why go to all the effort of changing a house that you’re going to be leaving soon?
BECAUSE THIS IS OUR HOME. That’s why.
And now that I know we’re going to be here a few more years, I’ve realized it’s time to make this OUR space. I want to love every inch of my house and I want it to be meaningful and functional for us.
So in my quest for home-iness, I’ve been giving our kitchen major side-eye lately. I haven’t touched our kitchen since we moved in and painted it. But that’s about to change.
Let me share a little mood board I made that gives an idea of some of the larger elements I have in mind.
I apologize for the low quality mock-up, but you get the idea.
One thing I’ve known I wanted to do for a long time was paint the walls a deep gray. This is the same color (Semi Sweet by Valspar) that I used for the planet wall in Roarke’s room and our little hallway and I absolutely fell in love with the color. I’ve been picturing it for our kitchen ever since.
I’ve spent hours poring over tile selections and backsplashes and I always come back to classic subway tile with dark grout. So, maybe it’s overdone, but I can’t fight this feeling anymore. I’ve forgotten what I started fighting for, you guys.
I’m also itching to incorporate a couple of open shelves for the kitchen, and I’m really excited to make that happen!
I’ve long been a lover of the beaded chandeliers and I’m going to try my hand at a DIY (read: cheaper) version.
The table won’t be exactly like that, as I’m going to be repurposing our existing table, but that gives you an idea of what I’m going for. And my plan is to do a combination of the wooden x-back chairs and a couple of upholstered captain’s chairs on either end.
I am SO excited to get this started and finally turn this place into a real home that reflects our family and our style!